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32) મને મારા friend circle માં ખરાબ word બોલવાની આદત પડી ગઈ છે ,અને આ આદત માંથી મને નીકળવું છે, તો શું કરવું?

વાણીનો તમે દુરુપયોગ કરોને  તો ધીમે ધીમે વાણી ની શક્તિ ખલાસ થતી જાય. આપણામાં વચનબળ ખલાસ થઇ જાય. વાણીની શક્તિ કેવી રીતે ખલાસ થઇ જાય કે આપણે  આપણા સ્વાર્થ માટે ખોટું બોલીયે. ખરાબ શબ્દ 

32) Mane mara friend circle ma kharab words bolvani aadat padi gai che ane aa aadat mathi mane nikadvu che, to shu karvu?

Vani no tame durupyog karo ne to dhime dhime vani ni shakti khalas thati jai. Aapna ma vachanbad khalas thai jai. Vani ni shakti kevi rite khalas thai jai ke aapne aapna swarth mate khotu boliye, kharab shabd boliye to vachanbad ghattu jase. Vachanbad ghattu ghattu ek situation evi aavshe ke tame bolo ne to tamara par koi ne vishwas j na aave. Kharab shabd tu bole tyare tu jo je ke andar j tane dukh parinaam malshe etle aa dukh j che. To sama ney dukh thashe ane kok vaar koi manas ne bahu kharab lagi jai to ketlu ver bandhay ane aapanne kai maltu j nathi ane same aapnu vachanbad jatu rahe, evo moto loss kariye chhiye ane tu j vichar kar tu sara shabd bol to ketli thandak lage che. Vani bolvani pachad ketlu motu science che, ane darek shabdo ni kevi judi judi asar che. Dada pase shakti mangvi ke “mari vani sudhre” , “ mari vani chokkhi thai” , “mari vani thi koi ne dukh na thai.”

32) I have caught on to the bad habit of using abusive language with my friends, how to overcome it?

Ans: The misuse of speech gradually diminshes the underlying strength behind those words (Vachanbal) spoken. Whenever we speak with selfish motives or lie or use abusive language then the strength of our speech diminishes and gradually reachs at a stage where nobody is ever inclined to believe whatever we say. Also on instropection after using abusive language you shall not feel good about it. It might also happen that the other person might feel really hurt and may even bind revenge for it then in that case we do not gain anything and tend to make an added loss by losing the strength of words. Just think how good you feel on using decent language. There is a huge science behind speech and the impact of each and evry word you utter. Therefore ask for strength from God to improve language and not spread unhappiness with whatever is spoken.


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